Impermanence

                              

When somebody tells me that he or she has failed in their academic exams, my question is,

"Is it a law that you will pass every time?"

                 

 When someone tells me that my boyfriend/girlfriend broke up with me, my question is,

"Is it a rule that you will have successful relationships everywhere?"

 When somebody asks me why am I feeling depressed, my question is,

"Is it compulsory to have confidence all the time?"

 

 When someone cries to me about their huge business loss due to a wrong decision, my question is,

"Is it possible that you take all right decisions?"

 The fact is, our expectation that life has to be perfect/permanent is the biggest reason of our unhappiness.

One has to understand the law of impermanence of nature.

 After each sunny day, there has to be a dark night, after each birth there have to be certain deaths, for the full moon to come again it has to pass through no moon. In this imperfection of nature, there is perfection.
                                                         

 So stop taking your failures and bad part of your life so personally or intensely, even God does not like to give you pain but it is the cycle through which you have to pass. Prepare yourself for one more fight after each fall because even failures cannot be permanent...!

                                      

 
Enjoy life.... 

Shared by: Dipal G. Bhansali